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IMPACTING LIVES THROUGH THE GAME OF GOLF and ITS PRINCIPLES

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 “For golfers, beginner, intermediate, and advanced, who want to improve their games, both on  and off the course."

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 "To impact the lives of our students through the game of golf and its principles, shaping a  purpose-filled, fruit-filled, and joy-filled life.”

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 “To shape our students to play life-on life’s terms through the  principles of the game of golf then developing spiritual reflexes which guide them in their daily affairs, turning their convictions into action no matter what hazards they may face.”

2026 U.S. Open Causes G.O.L.F. To Call An Audible

It was posted that our next tip would be titled "Do You Begin Each Day Moving From Bed to Burden, "in keeping with our recent theme of daily preparation for success. However, due to the tension around the upcoming United States Open, we thought it called for an audible.


Unlike the LPGA tour, men's professional golf has a very limited history of openly gay players. The topic of the LGBT community and the U.S. Open intersects with the sport's ongoing efforts in inclusion, player advocacy, and policies surrounding gender-based tournament eligibility. 


The United States Golf Association (USGA), which runs the U.S. Open and U.S. Women's Open, strictly enforces a Competitive Fairness Gender Policy to govern women's tournament eligibility. This policy has occasionally been the subject of controversy, notably leading transgender golfer Hailey Davidson to file a lawsuit against the USGA and LPGA after being denied entry into the U.S. Women's Open qualifiers. 


Since the U.S. Open played a prominent role in Tadd Fujikawa's career, who in 2006 became the youngest player ever to qualify for the U.S. Open at 15. Twelve years later, in 2018, he made global headlines by becoming the first male professional golfer to come out as gay publicly. Though the U.S. Open taking place at Shinnecock Hills Golf Club is a strictly competitive, merit-based championship that runs concurrently with Pride Month celebrations. Numerous regional golf tournaments across the country (such as the Pride Cup in Orlando and the Rainbow Cup) take place throughout the year to celebrate the LGBT community, raise funds for charity, and promote visibility.

 

Rory McIlroy has announced that he will not wear wristbands or apparel featuring the LGBTQ+ rainbow symbol during the 2026 PGA Tour season, emphasizing that professional golf should remain focused entirely on skill, on-course strategy, and competition rather than external symbols or social messaging. He explained: "I want golf to preserve the pure integrity of the sport, centered on what happens on the course." The statement immediately ignited heated debate across the golf community, sharply dividing opinions between those who support Rory's right to express his personal views and those who argue that the sport must continue to actively promote inclusion, diversity, and respect for all communities at the highest level. 


Why? Has Fujikawa been blocked from competing? THAT's "BS." IT'S ABOUT CONTROVERSY, which, in my opinion, is part of the left-wing NBC Sports' game plan, which has changed The Golf Channel's tone since acquiring it. Fact is, the game of golf is now vulnerable to their attack.


As you might imagine, I watch a considerable amount of golf on YouTube. As a result of this, I get inundated with golf videos. Recently, I saw a video titled "The Five Biggest Cheaters on the PGA Tour." The first time I saw it, I bypassed it. However, the controversy brewing over the upcoming U.S. Open got me to watch. As I was watching and listening to a couple of reputable players who have a lot to say, my lights went on. I had to come to grips with the state of the game.


Of the five names mentioned, there was really nothing to be surprised about, since these names have been out there for quite some time. We're talking about names like Reed, Mickelson, Singh, and Garcia. Then came the bombshell, as they say in politics. Voted the number one cheater in the history of the PGA Tour was none other than Gary Player. WHAT! The golfer who brought this to light did so because of something Player did in the 1983 Skins Game. Tom Watson, another player in the group along with Palmer and Nicklaus, observed what Player did. This infraction occurred on the 17th hole with $175,000 of skins on the line. Player won the hole. 


After the 18th hole, Watson pulled Gary Player aside and challenged him on what he did. That was the first time anyone had ever challenged him. Watson was later contacted by the New York Times and said, "He's been doing it for years." 


The conscience that once policed the sport has slowly been replaced by cameras, video replay, and TV viewers calling in penalties from their living rooms. Some players now treat the rulebook like a negotiation tool, something to work around rather than honor. 


In the 2018 United States Open at Shinnecock Hills on the13th hole of the third round. Phil Mickelson hit a putt that was still moving. The ball was rolling away from the hole, picking up speed on a fast green, heading somewhere bad. So, Mickelson ran after it and hit it again while it was still in motion. That is against the rules. A two-stroke penalty was applied.


Here's the part that really got under people's skin. He did it on purpose. He knew what he was doing. He accepted the penalty and moved on, having prevented his ball from ending up in a far worse position. He turned a rules penalty into a strategy. His explanation afterward was one of the most unusual things a professional golfer has ever said in a post-round interview. He said, "It is a disrespect to the championship. It was certainly not meant that way. It was meant to, you know, take advantage of the rules." He knew he understood exactly what he had done, and he did it anyway because the math made sense to him. 


When Mickelson chose to accept two strokes in exchange for a better lie, he did not just bend a rule. He broke the idea that rules carry moral weight. The golf world has since learned that this once media and fan darling is fighting many serious demons. 


Next, Patrick Reed was in a waste bunker. The cameras catch Reed clearly. Twice, he used practice swings to sweep sand away from behind his ball, improving the lie he would play from. A two-stroke penalty was applied. What came after the penalty was the moment that defined this story. 


Reed did not say he made a mistake. He did not say he did not know the rule. He challenged the evidence itself. He said it is my word versus their word, and they were not standing there. "They had a camera angle. So because of that, you know, I mean, you do not really have a choice." He was saying that because the officials were not physically standing beside him, their verdict, based on video footage, should carry less weight than his own account of what happened. The entire system rests on the assumption that conscience is the first line of defense. 


Reed was not just rejecting the penalty. He was rejecting the footage. He was rejecting objective proof. He wanted his word to override video evidence that millions of people could watch with their own eyes. Reed did not step back and consider whether the footage was telling the truth. He tried to make the footage irrelevant. That is not the mindset of someone who believes golf is a game with conscience. That is the mindset of someone who believes winning the argument matters more than playing it straight. 


Lee Trevino has a video out where he talks about golf's biggest frauds. When thinking of the word "fraud," this video is not fraudulent, as you might think. For instance, he referred to Rory McIlroy. Trevino says McIlroy is one of the most gifted natural golfers ever. The fraud he spoke of was a new disease that is being experienced on the tour called "Corporate Dependence". Jim Nantz has commented just how difficult it is to get an honest interview that sponsors, agents, or sports psychologists don't control. 


The fraud Trevino refers to is that the golf world cannot get to see the real Rory McIlroy because his corporate pushers control every aspect of his life. The statement I wrote previously in this tip is an example of that. What McElroy is saying is not really threatening; in fact, it's very safe. In this situation, the problem stems from pushers injecting themselves into this great game and, little by little, causing controversy, just as is happening in our country. It's the same faction trying to destroy anything good. 


What we are experiencing is a tragic but not surprising breakdown of the human condition, and it has found the great game of golf vulnerable to the LGBT movement now. Relativism has done its work by making God irrelevant. The professionals today are chattel owned by bloodsucking agents, making corporate dependence cut with a false stardom more addictive than anything that can ever be ingested. 


Greg Norman and LIV are too stomach-turning to warrant inclusion in today's demise of the game as we once knew it. Norman paid himself $50 million a year for 2 years as chairman of LIV, and the man is a miserable, disgruntled, failed player known more for what he blew than what he won. 


Is it too late for the game of golf? Has the LIV controversy, coupled with the enormous money now on both circuits, led to the game's demise? The winner of Jack's tournament received four million dollars for a week's work. It's less than twenty-four hours since the victory, and I've already forgotten the winner's name. Nevertheless, four million will make the holiest of the holy feel a bit different and show very little concern for what's going on in the background.

Welcome to Game of Life Foundation, G.O.L.F.

Game of Life Foundation, G.O.L.F., is a holistic coaching and training environment. G.O.L.F. focuses on developing the “whole” person beginning with the shaping of fundamentally sound basics. Our students develop a rhythm and balance to life leading to purpose-filled, fruit-filled, and joy-filled lives.


For nearly 30 years, G.O.L.F. has a proven history in the ongoing development of coaching and training systems shaping the lives of those committed to our motto, “doing the things most won't, and, enjoying the things most never will.”

  

First introduced in 2003 in book form, The Country Club of Life (here-in-after referred to as “The CC of Life,) is now a virtual training environment whose coaching and training techniques are rooted in the belief in Intelligent Design. 


The CC of Life is registered with the United States Golf Association, USGA, as a “Club Without Real Estate.” In this capacity, The CC of Life is listed in the USGA’s directory along with 8,000 clubs throughout the US. 


G.O.L.F. prides itself on its partnerships with various like-minded community organizations and affiliate relations. 

Our History

1993

  • Game of Life Launches Under the Name United for Christ, UFC
  • Initial Meetings Held
  • Board of Directors Formed
  • First Director Hired, (Ernie Wilhoit)

1994

  •  501 (c) (3) Non-Profit Corporation Formed
  • Formed Collaborative Relationship with Athletes in Action
  • Youth Night with the NY Giants

1995

  • Youth Night with NY Jets and Knicks
  • Promise Keepers Task Force Formed
  • Youth Baseball Clinic with Milwaukee Brewers
  • Bethel Homework Club Established

1996

  • Second Director Hired, (Bill Carlucci)
  • Men’s Breakfasts, Luncheons and Retreats Begin
  • Youth Night with the NY Giants

1997

  • G.O.L.F. Clinics and e-Tips Begin
  • Business Connections Quarterly Luncheons Begin

1998

  • Host First G.O.L.F. Outing
  • Financial Fitness Workshops Begin
  • G.O.L.F. Clinics Begin
  • e-Tips Reach Expands Throughout U.S. 

1999

  • Myrtle Beach Golf & Grow
  • e-Tips Reach Expands Globally. Response Received From Hong Kong. 
  • Six Member Committee Begins Meeting for Mission Connecticut with Luis Palau
  • Launch Golf Outing for Christian Heritage School. First of many that will be started.
  • Phase One of How to Play The Game of Life Series Launched
  • Game of Life Fellowship Groups Begin Forming

2000

  • e-Tips Continue To Expand Globally. Responses Received From Australia and U.K. 
  • Mission Connecticut with Luis Palau Steering Committee Forms
  • Game of Life Foundation, G.O.L.F. Becomes Name
  • Launch Business Workshops
  • Golf & Grow Clinics Held at Various Churches Weekly During Winter Months.
  • Fundraising Outings Increase fbo Area Ministries

2001

  • Mission Connecticut with Luis Palau Executive Committee Forms
  • Mission Connecticut with Luis Palau Festivals held, (May 19 thru Jun 9)
  • Launch Connecticut Prayer Breakfast
  • G.O.L.F. named top Mission Connecticut Event

2002

  • Life-Focus with John Guest
  • Silver Ring Thing Sexual Abstinence Program Launched Throughout Connecticut

2003-2006

  • Virtual Coaching Potential Realized Due To G.O.L.F. Series Penetration
  • G.O.L.F. Retreat Held At Crystal Springs Resort in New Jersey
  • Glenn Williams Outing and Scholarship Fund Launched
  • Country Club of Life Book Featured on Fox & Friends Weekend

2007

  • Fairfield County Men’s Network Launched
  • Game of Life Initiates Merger with Black Rock Church - Fairfield, Connecticut and Long Ridge Church Stamford, CT 
  • Country Club of Life Junior Program Launched
  • Clubs F.O.R.E. Kids Program Launched in Collaboration with The First Tee
  • Surviving the Sandwich Years  to Promote Church Growth
  • Director Bill Carlucci Completes Seminary Studies and is Commissioned, Licensed and Ordained

2008

  • Divorce-Care Outreach Launched
  • Community and Auto Repair Service, C.A.R.S. Launched
  • G.O.L.F. Local Ministry Support Outings reach $2,000,000

2009

  • Community and Auto Repair Service, C.A.R.S. Unites With Norwalk Young Life
  • The Dennie Welsh Business & Ethics Urban / Suburban Initiative Forms
  • Game of Life Begins Counseling on Mortgage Modifications to Assist Community
  • Game of Life Begins Debt Counseling & Credit Repair Service for the Community
  • The Kitchen Table Youth Training Launches 

2010

  • Significant Time Being Spent In One-on-One Coaching Due To Economic Issues
  • Game of Life Assists In the Further Development of the  “I Glove You” Outreach  

2011 - 2015

This four year period would be a recessionary period coupled by an antagonistic attitude toward faith-based organizations and their tax-exempt status.


Collaboration efforts began to dwindle and eventually ceased as survival became the focus.


This would put an enormous demand on us for coaching. People looking for direction on re-inventing themselves and just plain looking for coping mechanisms. 

2016-2021 - Inactive - Some Services Part-Time

Over the last five years, I have been working The Country Club of Life Virtual Life Training and Coaching System. Spending this time consulting several small businesses, it was extremely eye-opening observing people and testing my coaching theories. 


The re-launch will be primarily virtual. I'm excited about getting the message I was given out. 

2022 Re-Launch

  • After paying very closed attention to millions of people flocking to online church during the pandemic, and evaluating the success of its online ministry, G.O.L.F. plans to launch The Country Club of Life as a virtual life and golf training platform

2023

  • The narrative for The Country Club of Life is Developed
  • Crowdfund Case for Support is Developed
  • Distribution campaign Begins

2024

  • Continue with increased coaching services.
  • Build Distribution to a Level To Fund the CrowdFund

2025

  • Launch The Country Club of Life Virtual Club

2026

Introduce our training platform, The Country Club  of Life and offer club membership to its virtual life and golf training along with other intriquing and valuable resources. CC of Life is registered with the United States Golf Association as a Club Without Real Estate.

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